It amazes me how many people settle for health problems like a low libido because
they think it’s normal or they are just getting older. Just because something is common doesn’t make it normal. The purpose of this discussion is to get to the root cause of health problems like a low sex drive, and find natural solutions on how to Increase Libido In Women, and if related, men. According to the National Institutes Of Health, there are 2 sexual desire disorders that are typically often not addressed by healthcare providers and patients due their private and awkward nature, hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) and sexual aversion disorder (SAD).
HSDD may be a result of having little or no desire for sexual activities, or, absence of sexual fantasies that causes you serious distress, or, it could be a mental health issue like depression. This condition is commonly known as “female sexual interests/arousal disorder”. That simply means many under-recognized, under-treated disorders leading to a great deal of morbidity in relationships.
It’s not unusual for a woman to be embarrassed to admit that she wants to improve her libido. Many women also assume there are no treatments available. Why bother. So instead of just taking another pill that most likely won’t help, why don’t we actually find out why you have the problem in the first place? Novel idea, I know.
If you’re experiencing a dry spell, or been worried sick about your waning libido, don’t fear, you are probably looking in the wrong place for a solution, and there might be a reason for it that’s simple to repair. It could be as simple as what you put on your plate, or, it could be other simple factors that are fairly easy to correct.
Mayo Clinic addressed the various causes of low libido in women in their article “Low Sex Drive In Women”, such as pregnancy, menopause, illness, anti-depressant medications, surgery, chronic stress and fatigue, depression, self-esteem, lack of communication and trust issues in a relationship, and others.
If you’re not feeling as enticed or sexual for a while, it could be due to surprising factors that are decreasing your libido, and causing you to spend less time between the sheets with your better half. Not only can this interfere with a current or potential, future relationship down the road, but it can also take away some quality aspects of life that should be enjoyable.
Here is what Wikipedia has to say about Libido,
is a person’s overall sexual drive, or desire for sexual activity. Libido is influenced by biological, psychological, and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones such as testosterone and dopamine, and the neurotransmitters, regulate the libido in humans. Social factors such as work and family, and internal factors, such as personality, stress, anxiety, and depression, can effect libido. Libido can also be affected by medical conditions, medications, relationship issues, and age.
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Often when self-esteem is dwindling, sexual desire plummets. Likewise, not finding
time for sex or self-pleasure can also create a disconnect with your body and make you feel less frisky, in general. There are incredible benefits to sex or “me time,” such as lowering stress levels, promoting self-love, and boosting oxytocin, the love hormone, with whomever you’re doing the deed with. Getting to the bottom of a low sex drive can really improve your quality of life. Here are some various reasons why your libido is down and a few key tips on how to properly get it back up in no time.
Is It Depression?
Depression is a condition that causes a person to experience depressed mood, lack of enjoyment in everyday life, or both. Everyone experiences slumps from time to time, but depression generally lasts longer. Some of the symptoms of depression include: feelings of sadness, loss of appetite, weight loss or gain, trouble sleeping, difficulty concentrating, and low energy levels. Another symptom associated with depression is a change in sex drive.
If you’re depressed, you may feel like you don’t have enough energy for sex. Since depression can also cause you to enjoy activities less, you may find that you don’t enjoy sex the way you once did. The process can also work in reverse. It’s possible for a low libido to trigger feelings of depression. What even complicates it even more, it’s possible for a person with HSDD to experience low mood related to sexual activities, but to feel positive about other aspects of life.
Sexual disorders and depression in women go hand in hand in many cases, according to an article published in The Journal Of Clinical Psychiatry. 40 percent of women with a sexual disorder also experience depression. The researchers found that an estimated 10 percent of U.S. women experience a “desire disorder.” An estimated 3.7 percent have problems with both desire and depression. Stressful life events, such as a divorce or a lost job or any major life transitions, whether positive, negative, or neutral, may also be a trigger for low libido and depression, according to an article in American Family Physician.
The study also cited ongoing relationship stressors and substance abuse. One Psychosomatic Medicine study, reviewed by the NIH, found that women who were depressed and had HSDD were less happy in their relationships. They also had sex with their partner less frequently. Plus, they had greater difficulty forming and maintaining relationships.
Additionally, one-third of premenopausal women with HSDD also experienced depression. According to Jennifer Payne, MD, and Director of the Mood Disorder Center at John Hopkins, as many as 21 percent of women will experience major depression at some point. And lack of libido can be a tipoff. Quoting Dr. Payne:
Change in sex drive is a key symptom we look at when deciding if someone fits the diagnosis for major depressive episodes,
A primary symptom of depression is the inability to enjoy things you normally enjoy, like sex.
The study also showed people with depression also have decreased energy, feel badly about themselves and might view their partners through a negative filter, all of which impacts sex drive.
Deficiency In Vitamins and Minerals
Vitamin A deficiency. Vitamin A is found in eggs, milk, meat, orange or yellow fruits, vegetables, and supplementing with a natural Adaptogen(*). Vitamin A is essential for female sex hormone production, and, for that matter, just as essential for men. Even for the normal reproductive cycle in women, it is essential you have an adequate supply. For men too, Vitamin A is vital to sperm production and virility.
Mineral Magnesium deficiency. Adequate quantity of magnesium aids in getting good sleep. It is also essential for sex drive. organic nuts and seeds, grass-fed eggs, organic whole grains such as brown rice, organic dark green leafy vegetables, an a natural Adaptogen(*), are all good sources of magnesium. Since magnesium is beneficial in restoring restful sleep, per a NIH study, and sleep deprivation results in sexual dysfunction (see Lack of Sleep section study), magnesium is not only beneficial to restoring sleep, but also in beneficial in enhancing sexual function.
Mineral Selenium deficiency. There is some evidence to support selenium being effective in preventing prostate cancer, according to this NIH study, but more study trials are needed. Brazil nuts are a good source of selenium. A single piece of nut daily is enough to have a marked improvement in your libido. It is also found in broccoli, cabbage, mushrooms, onions, whole grains, seafood and a natural Adaptogen(*).
Mineral Zinc deficiency. Present in pulses, whole grains, eggs, sea food, red meat, cheese, an a natural Adaptogen(*), zinc is an essential mineral for your overall health as well. Lack of zinc may contribute to sterility or infertility. Zinc can help raise testosterone levels which will also helps raise sexual desire, according to a study in the Journal of Human Reproductive Sciences, reviewed by the NIH, found male rats taking zinc took longer to ejaculate compared to a control group.
Vitamin E deficiency. Important for stamina and energy, Vitamin E is also good for good blood circulation. You can get it in oily fish, eggs, dairy products, and a natural Adaptogen(*). It is also called the ‘sex vitamin’ because it increases blood flow and oxygen to your genitalia.
Mineral Iron deficiency. Iron is critical for maintaining the level of your sexual arousal. It can be found in red lean meat, egg yolk, green vegetables, dry fruits, and a natural Adaptogen(*). Anemia could be one of the causes for lack of sexual desire and also quality of erection. Iron deficiency could also contribute to erectile dysfunction, according to an NIH study, citing the lack of iron causing anemia.
Vitamin D deficiency. Great sources include fish, eggs, fortified milks, lean meat for protein, and a natural Adaptogen(*).
If you’re a vegan or don’t like these foods, you can take a supplement. Vitamin D can help raise testosterone levels and supply the body with the needed resources for an upbeat libido.
Low testosterone levels. Although testosterone levels never reach zero, as estrogen levels do in women during menopause, low testosterone levels, particularly in men, cause men to experience symptoms such as fatigue, decreased mental acuity, and moodiness, low sex drive, and loss of muscle mass.
While low testosterone is more common in older men, it can occur in younger men and women as well. Oral contraceptives can lower testosterone levels in women. For younger men, a drop in testosterone levels can be caused by some illnesses, including type 2 diabetes, chronic liver or kidney disease, COPD, or other lung disease, pituitary gland problems, or other causes.
Vitamin deficiency, such as lacking vitamin D, using steroids, poor sleep patterns, or trauma are other examples. Physically, a lack of sleep can elevate cortisol levels, which also leads to low libido. Treatment for low testosterone include weight loss and other lifestyle changes, such as eating healthier foods, ample restful sleep, increasing exercise, and supplementing with a natural Adaptogen(*).
Lack Of Sleep
Not properly logging your z’s can lead to fatigue, which can alter your sex drive. An often missed, but important cause of a low sex drive is sleep apnea, which is when your breathing stops or slows down during a period of sleep. Not only does sleep apnea cause fatigue and increase the risk of other medical issues, sleep apnea is associated with a low sex drive. In addition to low energy levels, sleep disorders affect libido by impeding the production of testosterone.
In one NIH study, published in 2011, showed that even moderate sleep restriction reduces daytime testosterone levels by 10 to 15 percent. According to the study, symptoms of deficiency included low energy, reduced libido, poor concentration, and increased sleepiness, all of which may be produced by sleep deprivation in healthy individuals. Another 2015 NIH study concluded that women obtaining sufficient sleep was important to the promotion of healthy sexual desire and the likelihood of engaging in sexual activity with a partner.
Most prescription anti-depressants work by raising levels of serotonin in the body, the person taking the drug experiences a feeling of calm and less anxiety. However, that same
sense of calm and stability can lower your libido. It prevents the hormones that cause our bodies to respond to sex from transmitting their message to our brains. Simply put, anti-depressants can turn the dial down on our sex drives. Women taking anti-depressants may experience delayed lubrication as well as delayed or blocked orgasm. Generally, women are also likely to experience lack of desire for sex. In some cases, women report discomfort during sex.
According to Joel J. Heidelbaugh, M.D., at the University Of Michigan Medical School, cancer drugs, opioids, anti-anxiety medications, antifungal treatments and some diuretics can also impact normal sexual function through impact on the cardiovascular system and impacting testosterone levels.
Common side effects, particularly in men, include loss of libido and difficulty getting an erection. Some men have trouble maintaining an erection. Men taking anti-depressants also report delayed or blocked orgasm. Both men and women often experience the weight gain, nausea, dizziness, complete lack of energy, and sluggishness, as a result of anti-depressants. Every person will react to these side effects differently. However, for many people, these additional emotional and physical effects can make the idea of sex less appealing.
Simple Corrective Measures
Consider committing to some simple, every day activities that will ward off depression naturally, that will Increase Libido In Women, and if relevant, in men, without the negative side effects of taking anti-depressants. Get sufficient restful sleep of a least seven hours a night. Learn how to be relaxed and grounded, do things that make you responsible, and give you a sense of accomplishment, such as being mindful, slow-breathing, living in-the-moment, or practicing meditation.
One University Of California-Berkeley study found that meditation which brings non-judgmental, moment-to-moment awareness, proved to be effective with women are
mindfulness techniques, and were better able to tune into their body’s response and experience sex as pleasurable.
The researchers believed that “mindfulness” (1) targets the negative self-talk that many women with sexual dysfunction experience and alleviates the negative thoughts. Set small, achievable, written goals and act on them. Visit nature frequently and sleep by a warm, cozy campfire under the stars. Participate routinely in moderate physical activity together to get your blood flowing and both your MOJO’s going. Or, you both take your dog for exercise and work up a sweat and gets you in the mood, because a couple who “sweats together stays together!”
Eat Healthy, Nutrient-Dense, Well-Balanced Meals from the four major food groups as follows:
Lean Organic Grass-Fed Finished and Free-Range Finished Foods. (A) Includes red meats, poultry, brown eggs, and dairy high in protein.
Wild-Caught Fish and Seafood. Include all ocean fish and shell fish. (A)
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Healthy Poly-Unsaturated Fatty Acids. One solution is to increase your consumption of nutrient-rich foods high in omega 3 fatty acids. Research such as this NIH study, has shown that Omega 3 fatty acids can help decrease anxiety and depression which in turn means that if these two are decreased your sexual desire may be increased. Omega 3 fatty acids can also help increase dopamine levels too. This can improve mood but also trigger arousal.
Supplement With All-Natural Whole-Food Peruvian Maca. Research has shown Peruvian Maca has been effective in improving libido in both men and women, and erectile dysfunction in men. A 2010 NIH review of studies on maca and sexual functioning found some evidence to suggest maca could improve libido, but the authors cautioned that a larger study should be initiated.
Another NIH study in 2015 found that maca root may help reduce sexual dysfunction in postmenopausal women who were taking an antidepressant. A 2009 Wiley-Italian study on P Maca found it to be beneficial in treating erectile dysfunction in men. P Maca has also shown to be effective in enhancing fertility particularly in men. An NIH study found some evidence that maca root may increase semen quality in both fertile and infertile men. Maca contains plant flavonoids, which are thought to improve mood and reduce anxiety and depression.
One study of 14 postmenopausal women found that P Maca may reduce feelings of anxiety and depression.
Another NIH study found that P Maca could reduce symptoms of depression in Chinese postmenopausal women. P Maca has even shown to be effective in treating the symptoms of menopause. Another NIH study found that postmenopausal women who took gelatin P Maca experienced reduced symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes and night sweats. Read more exciting information about all the healthy and well being benefits of P Maca in these articles: “Where Can I Buy Maca?” (A) and “What Is In Maca Root?”
Other Health Issues
Heart and Cardiovascular Disease. For example, research shows that heart problems could be an issue in low sex drive. If you’ve had cardiac problems in the past, that could be a factor here. One NIH study showed that an estimated 60 to 87 percent of patients who experienced heart failure report sexual problems and that the prevalence of erectile dysfunction is reported in up to 81% of male cardiac patients.
Columbus Batiste, a cardiologist at Kaiser Permanente in Southern California, cited a number of small studies which linked low sexual function and unhealthy foods. Dr. Batiste believes that eating nutrient-dense foods such as legumes, fruits and whole grains can help with both sexual function and stall and reverse heart disease. There’s even some studies, like this NIH study, that link diabetes in both men and women to sexual dysfunction.
Female sexual function appears to be more related to social and psychological components than to the physiological consequence of diabetes, however. Do something everyday women usually enjoy, which will release the pleasure hormone dopamine and Increase Libido In Women. Supplement your diet each day with a natural Adaptogen, which will help regulate imbalanced hormones and reduce stress, anxiety, and depression.
Resentment or lost of interest with partner. When there is a tremendous disparity between partners’ sex drives, and relationships can be difficult to manage. The low-libido partner may feel pushed and resentful, and the high-libido partner can feel abandoned, betrayed, rejected, and angry. While both individuals within this dynamic struggle, the higher-libido partner has unique challenges, and their perspective will be different. Resentment simmers in the background of their relationship. Sometimes it’s just boredom and lack of excitement, or the early decline after the “honeymoon period”, which puts a damper on relationships, according to an NIH study, and a simple exercise of instilling excitement back into the relationship, restores the sexual attraction.
The answer here is open and honest communication, according to a study published in the Journal Of Social and Personal Relationships. This Temple University study examined the impact of general and sexual communication on couples’ overall and sexual satisfaction. Data were collected from 116 heterosexual, monogamous couples in relationships of at least three months’ duration. Sexual satisfaction mediated the relationship between open sexual communication and overall satisfaction.
The American Psychological Associated also recommends open and honest communication concerning all issues, including deeper and more personal subjects like sex. When sexual issues are discussed and worked on openly and directly, many couples can empathize with one another for the first time, and come to a place where they both feel responded to and understood. Each partner needs to venture outside their comfort zone to work on coming together to build a sex life that can be fulfilling.
Excessive alcohol. Alcohol is a depressant, and using it
heavily can dampen mood, decrease sexual desire, and make it difficult for a man to achieve erections or reach an orgasm while under the influence. That doesn’t mean you need to cut back completely, most experts say moderation is key. But what is moderation exactly? According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), moderate drinking is no more than two drinks a day for men and one drink a day for women. According to a Mayo Clinic study, moderate alcohol consumption can be beneficial for reducing the risk of heart disease and stroke.
Though some studies confirm that alcohol used in moderation, is good for your heart and circulation, but it can also be responsible for erectile dysfunction. It’s important to remember that sex and alcohol are a delicate balancing act. Remember, the secret is moderation.
Chronic stress. The body reacts to stress by releasing adrenaline and cortisol. Chronic stress, in particular, can interfere with your body’s hormone levels, and result in a low libido. The arteries can also narrow and restrict blood flow in response to stress, which can also lead to erectile dysfunction in men. Stress can also reduce libido in women by distraction and taking your mind off sexual desire.
The NIH conducted a study on chronic stress and sexual dysfunction and arousal in women and concluded that high levels of chronic stress were related to lower levels of genital sexual arousal. Quoting the study:
Both psychological (distraction) and hormonal (increased cortisol) factors were related to the lower levels of sexual arousal seen in women high in chronic stress, but distraction was the only significant predictor when controlling for other variables.
The same activities and recommendations discussed in the depression topic (anti-depressants) also apply here.
Menopause. Women may experience low libido during menopause
for a number of reasons. Estrogen levels drop suddenly during these years, causing much stress, and undesirable effects such as vaginal tissue becoming dry. That, in turn, can lead to discomfort and pain during intercourse and discourage a woman’s sexual desire. The reduction of estrogen also leads to a greater risk of cardiovascular disease in women, according to a Cleveland Clinic study. Menopause can also lower testosterone, the hormone that boosts libido in women, as well as men. The North American Menopause Society has an interesting and informative research paper written by Sheryl A. Kingsberg, PhD, worth reading.
The paper covers the lack of sexual desire in women and the negative and unhealthy consequences in not only causing distress but also having negative effects on personal relationships, quality of life, and general health status. Clinicians need to understand the implications and address the concerns of their patients.
Interestingly, the same activities and recommendations covered in the depression topic, also apply here. In addition, intake of vitamins C and D should be increased because of the risk of osteoporosis developing. Maintain a healthy weight to reduce hot flashes and night sweats.
It’s also advisable to eat more lean, protein-rich foods, fruits and veggies, and foods that are rich in phytoestrogens, which mimic the effects of estrogen in the body, such as soybeans, tofu, soy products, temph, flaxseeds, sesame seeds, and beans. An NIH study concluded phytoestrogens appear to reduce the frequency of hot flushes in menopausal women, without serious side-effects. Reduce the use of inflammation-causing processed foods, and trigger foods and drinks, such as caffeine drinks and alcohol, high sugar, and spicy foods.
Dehydration. Dehydration affects both men and women. Women
experience more emotional issues, but the physical negative side effects happens to be more critical for a man. When a man is dehydrated, he does not have as much blood volume in his body as when he is properly hydrated. Therefore, his blood vessels become constricted, as there is not enough blood to keep them tense. This impairs blood flow to all parts of the body, including the penis, causing erectile dysfunction. In women, the condition of vaginal dryness occurs with dehydration, making it uncomfortable in intercourse, per a ScienceDirect study.
In addition to the physical effects of dehydration that impact penile erection, mood is also associated with dehydration, and may be attributed to the hormone cortisol. According to the NIH, when a person is mildly dehydrated, they may experience symptoms that include dark urine, dry mouth, fatigue, dizziness, and lack of sexual desire. There’s a very simple solution. Drink a minimum of eight 8-ounce glasses of filtered water daily. And, we said water or fused water with natural fruits added, not sweet or carbonated drinks.
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